The Rules

 

People like rules because they promise clarity. Do this, avoid that, and everything works out. It’s the same logic behind every “best practice” list.

I prefer not to think of rules as narrow and rigid. I consider them flexible guidelines. Guidelines assume you can think. They bend. They expect context. They’re less law, more “this usually works—until it doesn’t.”

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not anti-rule. Rules are useful and have been developed and tested over time, but they're built for conformity and comfort. They’re the box that gurus tell you to think outside of.

I like a good structure. And I like knowing where the edges are. But I don’t pretend those edges are fixed. Context shifts. People change. Technology rearranges the furniture while we’re still in the room.

So know the rules, but also know when to bend ‘em and when to break ‘em. Think of altering and ignoring rules as adjustment as opposed to a rebellion.